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~~WHEN..~~standing ~~STILL~~is not an option>


**Background & credits**..So the other night I was reading a fellow blogger’s blog site(he’s an Ordained Minister/Life Coach/Business Coach, etc..)..He’s on my fave WordPress reading  list @Johnnywalkerco.wordpress.com..And as he was explaining what a Life/Business Coach IS; he asked 2 questions..^1. Looking back a year AGO, are you better off in the following areas? *Professionally. *Financially*Spiritually*Relationally*Physically^2. And if you answered NO to any, would you like to be better off a year from now?..Well I instantly considered each & every area personally & my answers surprised me>

Oddly enough I hadn’t STOPPED long enough this past year; to even ponder over that question..But, without a doubt & with utmost honesty, my answer is YES..I am better off in every one of those areas. Going to save myself some finger strokes & ya’ll some reading time; you’ll have to trust me on this one. (although I could explain INdepth how my life has improved in all of those areas) The bigger question though IS; has YOURS? And if not; do you want it to? Next question..what are YOU waiting for? Lets rap..>

Mayhaps I’ve got an unfair advantage here..I’ve had some extreme motivating factors to improve on every, single facet of my life this past year..Numero Uno reason? I’m on the precipice of turning 50 years old(its so close I can reach out & touch IT) and I am determined! to be as much of the ALL I can BE by 50 yrs of age. Its highly personal..half a century old I figure is long enough to have reached a certain point. My second reason? I moved cross country & left alot behind to reach my UTOPIA. My forever happily ever after..Pretty much since my feet hit East Coast ground; I’ve been on the move. Not letting any grass grow under my feet(but I did plant my Daddy a lovely garden lol! ) to build UP ..Me. Haven’t ya’ll discovered we often need motivating factors to push us to do the max? Whether its a promotion we’re striving for. Whether its a significant other’s heart we’re trying to win over. Whether its a sport we’re trying to get a trophy competing for.  Whether its an A in an academic subject we find challenging.  The list goes on & on…So again, the question IS ‘Looking back a year AGO, are YOU better off in the aforementioned areas? And if NOT, what are you prepared to do to improve in those areas? >

I’ve become a firm believer that there is NO time like the present..My worst fear? To not become all I can BE..I personally know I’m not at my max; yet. I’m close, lol. But I’ve still got a couple more balls I think I can add to my juggling act..Are you doing all that YOU could be doing to reach your God given life purpose? Or perhaps one needs to ask themselves ‘What purpose am I serving? or want to serve? If you’re not UP to your own standard of what that is; then its time to work on improving those areas. Brick by brick it can be done..the first step is the hardest. But I can personally promise ya’ll it gets easier & you get a forward momentum!   Or least thats the way I see IT. Until I write/read ya’ll again stay UPlifted & blessed. 4ever sincere, Berna(the 1 & only)

3 thoughts on “~~WHEN..~~standing ~~STILL~~is not an option>

  1. What a great challenge to your readers! I was talking with my wife this morning and asked, “Would you be surprised to know that’s at people have never defined their purpose? Most people don’t even realize why the do what they do every day!”

    It’s amazing what a little purpose can do for someone.

    I’m glad my blog caused you to look back and realize what a great job you have been doing managing the opportunities that have been placed before you!

    Congratulations on a successful year! Let me know if there is anything I can do to help you in the upcoming one!

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    1. You said a mouthful, as usual, with this comment@It’s amazing what a little purpose can do for someone..I couldn’t agree more. Again & again & again..I once was once of those folks that didn’t have a clue what “my ” purpose was. And then? I began to slowly put the pieces together..Of what my natural talents/skills are. I’ve a gift for gab/am very much a people lover!/social butterfly & truly dig talking to folks from all backgrounds..comes with ease/and a natural urge/itch! to write down my thoughts/experiences; and in the process I work “through” alot of my own issues.

      I’m very pleased to have run across your blog. And I’ll always peek in often to get my “dose” of real-talk-about-real-life-experiences. I value your wealth of experience and insight. I recommend your blog to every & anyone and I’m sure many that read this will benefit from your services/expertise.

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      1. I am humbled by your kind words, and glad you could make sense of my comments in spite of my iPad’s spell checker.

        I look forward to reading your blog and interacting more in the future.

        God bless!

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