>>This piece was originally posted on ‘ The Uppidity Negro’ the personal blog of ICUs Joshua Lazard>>>
Domestic violence, inherently, creates complexities on both sides of the gender aisle. We, as a society, have to admit that in order to have an open and honest conversation. This would be a conversation that appropriately lets emotions be felt and listen to opinions that may seem like something directly from a male chauvinist playbook be dealt with directly. The first open and honest paradigm that should govern these types of conversations is that the victim should not be further victimized. There is nothing ever that the victim caused to be a victim of domestic abuse. There is no word or action that has the power of causation for them to be hit or struck in any shape, form or fashion.
I’ve sat back, silently (and perhaps that is a fault of my own I hope to explore later in this piece), and watched some of my black brothers bring out…
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